There's a lot of talk these days about "toxic masculinity." To be sure, there's plenty about traditional so-called "masculinity that has earned that unfortunate name. 

But it does us no good to wallow in the fact. There are men in this world, and there always will be. It's important to acknowledge the errors of the past, certainly. But that's not the end of the road. Once we see that the masculine has strayed from healthy ways of being, two questions come up: where have we gone wrong, and how can we make it right? 

Complicating the matter is the fact that many men feel less identified with "masculinity." Many aren't sure where they fit into the whole scheme. Or, some of us may identify strongly as masculine, but have no interest in the traditional ways it's been portrayed and embodied; the reliance on force, anger, competition, and war to make their ways in the world. We seek, not to suppress healthy traditional masculine aspects, but to augment them with higher vibrational concepts of Love, Service, and Humility. 

More specifically, we want to create a safe place where young men can address topics such as: 

  • Managing and acknowledging our emotions

  • Trusting the truths that arise within our bodies

  • The power of selfless service and reciprocity

  • The dangers of pornography

  • Our relationships with women, young women, girls, and the elderly

  • Establishing healthy habits, particularly morning and evening routines

  • Navigating sexuality in healthy ways

  • Clear communication

With trusted male and female advisors, we've come up with a program that allows young men (12-18, +/-) to learn skills that will help them establish a foundation of self-love and confidence, allowing them to step into their power as young men who are assets to themselves, their families, and communities. We want them to understand and accept their inherent responsibility to embody an evolved masculinity, in spite of the past. With initial outreach found on social media (currently Tik Tok and Instagram), Owls will be directed to YouTube for bi-weekly "Firesides" and "Live Chats" that feature deeper concepts about what it means to be a modern man. 

Additionally, there will be two monthly in-person gatherings. The first will is called, "MAS" (monthly activity, skills). At these meetups, we'll learn traditional and semi-traditional skills that are designed to keep young engaged while they build confidence. The second monthly gathering, called "MAC" (monthly activity, ceremony), will be centered on indigenous ceremonies such as Andean moon ceremonies, or an authentic Lakota sweat lodge which we are empowered to perform through long participation in the Sun Dance. Rites of passage, such as an easier version of the Vision Quest, will also be open to older Owls - as always, with parental consent, guidance, and support. 

Finally, we have partnered with a local Bend area wilderness therapy school for the purposes of hosting three-day trips into the wilderness for qualifying young men. These may take the form of hikes, raft trips, or ocean trips. For these, there will be extra costs, but we intend to keep them as affordable as possible. As we expand, we hope to offer scholarships for young men who have been actively engaged in the program. 

This program is still in development. We hope to have it up and running sometime before January 2021. Please reach out with any questions or if you feel called to involvement. 

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